Hadiths Of

الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

مُقَارَبَةُ النَّاسِ فِي أَخْلاَقِهِمْ أَمْنٌ مِنْ غَوَائِلِهِمْ.

Imam Ali (as):

Coming closer to people’s ways protects one from their malice.

Source: Nahj al-Balāgha No546

ID: 63045

1795 0

الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

مَنْ عامَلَ بِالرِّفْقِ وُفِّقَ

Imam Ali (as):

He who treats people with leniency will be granted success.

Source: Ghurar al-Ḥikam No244

ID: 62903

1340 0

الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

عَوِّدْ نَفْسَكَ السَّمَاحَ وَ تَخَيَّرْ لَهَا مِنْ كُلِّ خُلُقٍ أَحْسَنَهُ فَإِنَّ الْخَيْرَ عَادَة .

Imam Ali (as):

Habituate yourself to Leniency and choose from every set of traits the best of them, for goodness can be adopted by making it a habit.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol74 P213 Tuḥaf al-‘Uqūl No86

ID: 30086

4696 7

الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

لَا تُمَلِّكِ الْمَرْأَةَ مِنَ الْأَمْرِ مَا يُجَاوِزُ نَفْسَهَا فَإِنَّ ذَلِكَ أَنْعَمُ لِحَالِهَا وَ أَرْخَى لِبَالِهَا وَ أَدْوَمُ لِجَمَالِهَا فَإِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ رَيْحَانَةٌ وَ لَيْسَتْ بِقَهْرَمَانَة .

Imam Ali (as):

Do not assign to a woman a matter that is beyond her capability and strength, for this is more prosperous to her state, more fitting for her temperament and more enduring for her beauty. Verily a woman is a flower, and she is not an administrator.

Source: Wasā’il al-Shī’a Vol20 P168

ID: 30008

2534 0

رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إِنَّا أُمِرْنَا مَعَاشِرَ الْأَنْبِيَاءِ أَنْ نُكَلِّمَ النَّاسَ بِقَدْرِ عُقُولِهِمْ ...أَمَرَنِي رَبِّي بِمُدَارَاةِ النَّاسِ كَمَا أَمَرَنَا بِإِقَامَةِ الْفَرَائِضِ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

We the prophets have been commanded to speak to people according to the capacity of their intellects. Allah has commanded me to treat people amicably just as He has commanded me to fulfil religious obligations.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol2 P69

ID: 29864

2031 0

الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

إطعامُ الأسيرِ حقٌّ على مَن أسَرَهُ و إن كان يُرادُ مِن الغدِ قَتْلُهُ ، فإنّه يَنبغي أن يُطعَمَ و يُسْقى و يُظَلّ و يُرفَقَ بهِ ، كافرا كان أو غَيْرَهُ .

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Feeding the prisoner is the obligatory duty of the person who has captured him, even if he is to execute him the next day; he must be given food, water and shelter, and be treated well whether he is a disbeliever or not.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol5 P35

ID: 27457

13389 0

الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

مَن كانَ رفيقا في أمرِهِ نالَ ما يُريدُ مِنَ الناسِ .

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

One who is lenient and moderate in his affairs will obtain whatever he wants from people.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol2 P120

ID: 27392

4849 0

رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إنّ في الرِّفقِ الزِّيادَةَ و البَرَكَةَ ، و مَن يُحرَمِ الرِّفقَ يُحرَمِ الخَيرَ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

Verily in leniency is to be found abundance and benediction, so whoever is divested of leniency is deprived of good.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol2 P119

ID: 27391

6881 0

رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إنّ هذا الدِّينَ مَتِينٌ فَأوغِلُوا فيهِ برِفقٍ ، و لا تُكَرِّهُوا عِبادَةَ اللّهِ إلى عِبادِ اللّهِ فتكونوا كالراكِبِ المُنْبَتِّ الذي لا سَفَرا قَطَعَ و لا ظَهْرا أبقى .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

Verily this religion is firm so penetrate into it gently, and do not arouse aversion for Allah's worship in His servants that they may become like shattered riders who have neither gotten further in their travel nor have any drive left to continue.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol2 P86

ID: 27390

3128 0