يُمْتَحَنُ الصَّدِيقُ بِثَلَاثِ خِصَالٍ فَإِنْ كَانَ مُؤَاتِياً فِيهَا فَهُوَ الصَّدِيقُ الْمُصَافِي وَ إِلَّا كَانَ صَدِيقَ رَخَاءٍ لَا صَدِيقَ شِدَّةٍ تَبْتَغِي مِنْهُ مَالًا أَوْ تَأْمَنُهُ عَلَى مَالٍ أَوْ تُشَارِكُهُ فِي مَكْرُوه .
Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):
Test a friend with three things; if he possesses them, then he is indeed a genuine friend, otherwise, he will only befriend you in times of comfort and abandon you in times of trouble: [See if you can] ask him for money, or entrust him with your property, or if he stands by your side in your distress.
Source:
Bahar alanevar
Vol75
P235
Tuḥaf al-‘Uqūl
Vol1
P321
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