Hadiths Of The Criteria for Choosing a Spouse

رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

مَنْ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً لَا يَتَزَوَّجُهَا إِلَّا لِجَمَالِهَا لَمْ يَرَ فِيهَا مَا يُحِبُّ وَ مَنْ تَزَوَّجَهَا لِمَالِهَا لَا يَتَزَوَّجُهَا إِلَّا وَكَلَهُ اللَّهُ إِلَيْهِ فَعَلَيْكُمْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

He who marries a woman solely for her beauty will not find in her what he likes, he who marries her for her wealth Allah relegates him to that wealth, so look to marry women of faith.

Source: Bahar alanevar Vol100 P235

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَ أَمَانَتَهُ يَخْطُبُ إِلَيْكُمْ فَزَوِّجُوهُ إِلَّا تَفْعَلُوهُ تَكُنْ فِتْنَةٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَ فَسادٌ كَبِيرٌ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

When someone comes to you with a proposal of marriage and you are well-pleased with his faith and his integrity then accept him in marriage, for if you do not, discord and corruption will prevail in the land.

Source: Alamali Volcheykhe Toussi P

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الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

أَنْعَمُ النَّاسِ عَيْشاً مَنْ مَنَحَهُ اللَّهُ الْقَنَاعَةَ وَ أَصْلَحَ لَهُ زَوْجَهُ .

Imam Ali (as):

The man with the most comfortable lifestyle is he whom Allah, Glory be to Him, has granted contentment and to whom he has given a virtuous wife.

Source: Ghurar al-Ḥikam Vol1 P212

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الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

أنعَمُ النّاسِ عَيشا مَن مَنَحَهُ اللّهُ سُبحانَهُ القَناعَةَ، و أصلَحَ لَهُ زَوجَهُ.

Imam Ali (as):

The man with the most comfortable lifestyle is he whom Allah, Glory be to Him, has granted contentment and to whom he has given a virtuous wife.

Source: Ghurar al-Ḥikam No3295

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الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

أنعَمُ الناسِ عَيشا مَن مَنَحَهُ اللّهُ سُبحانَهُ القَناعَةَ وأصلَحَ لَهُ زَوجَهُ.

Imam Ali (as):

The most blessed of people in his livelihood is he who Allah Almighty has granted contentment to, and has given a righteous spouse.

Source: Ghurar al-Ḥikam No3295

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

مِن سَعادَةِ المَرءِ الزوجَةُ الصالِحَةُ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

A virtuous wife is part of a man s prosperity.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol5 P327

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

خَيرُ مَتاعِ الدنيا المرأةُ الصالِحَةُ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

The best source of enjoyment in this world is a virtuous wife.

Source: Mizan al-Hikmah No566

ID: 1315

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

ما استَفادَ المؤمنُ بعدَ تَقوَى اللّهِ عزّوجلّ خَيرا لَهُ مِن زَوجَةٍ صالِحَةٍ.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

There is nothing more beneficial to a believing man after his piety and devotion to Allah than a virtuous wife.

Source: Mizan al-Hikmah No566

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

أنّ رسولَ اللّهِ صلى الله عليه و آله قالَ لِلنّاسِ: إيّاكُم وخَضْراءَ الدِّمَنِ، قيلَ: يا رسولَ اللّهِ، وما خَضراءُ الدِّمَنِ؟ قالَ: المَرأةُ الحَسناءُ في مَنبِتِ السُّوءِ.

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

The Prophet (SAWA) addressing the people, saying, Beware of the verdure that grows in manure. He was asked, What is the verdure that grows in manure? He replied, It is a beautiful woman that comes from an evil environment.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol5 P332 Ma’āni-l Akhbār No316

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