Hadiths Of Breaking up with Friends

الإمام علي (عليه السَّلام):

إِيَّاكَ أَنْ تُخْرِجَ صَدِيقَكَ إِخْرَاجاً تُخْرِجُهُ عَنْ مَوَدَّتِكَ وَ اسْتَبْقِ لَهُ مِنْ أُنْسِكَ مَوْضِعاً يَثِقُ بِالرُّجُوعِ إِلَيْهِ .

Imam Ali (as):

Beware of completely cutting off relations with your friend and excluding him from your amity, rather you should at least leave a place for him in your heart, so he can feel confidant enough to return to it one day.

Source: ‘Uyūn al-Ḥikam wal-Mawā’iḍ Vol1 P98 Ghurar al-Ḥikam Vol1 P169

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

مَنْ وَضَعَ حُبَّهُ فِي غَيْرِ مَوْضِعٍ فَقَدْ تَعَرَّضَ لِلْقَطِيعَةِ .

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

He who places his amity in the wrong place is bound to suffer abandonment.

Source: Wasā’il al-Shī’a Vol16 P172

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

أيُّما مُسلِمَينِ تَهاجَرا فمَكَثا ثَلاثا لا يَصطَلِحانِ إلاّ كانا خارِجَينِ مِن الإسلامِ ، و لَم يَكُن بَينَهُما وَلايَةٌ ، فأيُّهُما سَبَقَ إلى كلامِ أخيهِ كانَ السّابِقَ إلَى الجَنَّةِ يَومَ الحِسابِ .

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

No sooner do two Muslims forsake each other and stay like that for three days without reconciling, than they are regarded as having left Islam and there is no relation between them. However, Whoever of them precedes in speaking to his brother will precede entrance into Heaven on the Day of Judgment.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol2 P345

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

لَا يَزَالُ إِبْلِيسُ فَرِحاً مَا اهْتَجَرَ الْمُسْلِمَانِ؛ فَإِذَا الْتَقَيَا اصْطَكَّتْ‏ رُكْبَتَاهُ، وَ تَخَلَّعَتْ أَوْصَالُهُ‏.

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

Satan continues to be happy as long as two Muslims forsake each other, and when they reconcile again his knees tremble and his joints break apart.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol4 P57

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

لَأَنْ أُصْلِحَ بَيْنَ اثْنَيْنِ‏ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ أَنْ أَتَصَدَّقَ بِدِينَارَيْنِ.

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

To reconcile between two persons is more beloved to me than spending two Dinars in charity.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol3 P532

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الإمام جعفر الصادق (عليه السَّلام ):

صَدَقَةٌ يُحِبُّهَا اللَّهُ: إِصْلَاحُ‏ بَيْنِ النَّاسِ إِذَا تَفَاسَدُوا، وَ تَقَارُبُ بَيْنِهِمْ إِذَا تَبَاعَدُوا.

Imam Ja‘far al-Ṣadiq (as):

A charitable act that Allah loves indeed is reconciling people when they have become estranged to one another, and bringing them close together when they have become distanced from each other.

Source: al-Kāfī Vol3 P531

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رسول الله (صلی الله علیه و آله):

لا تَدابَرُوا، ولا تَقاطَعُوا، وكُونواعِبادَ اللّهِ إخوانا، هَجرُ المُؤمنَينِ ثَلاثا، فإن ‏تَكَلَّما وإلّا أعرَضَ اللّهُ عَزَّوجلَّ عَنهُما حتّى يَتَكلَّما.

The Prophet Muhammad (S):

Do not turn your backs to each other and do not cut ties amongst yourselves, and be servants of Allah as brothers. Deserting a believer [going into a sulk] for [more than] three days [is not allowed] and they must speak [thereafter], but if they do not, Allah Almighty turns away from them until they speak.

Source: Al-Taghrib w Al-Tarhib Vol3 P457

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